Be a Leader
An alpha male is often regarded as a lion among the sheep, someone who’s not afraid to be a leader for his friends, acting with influence and strength. With a population becoming increasingly complacent and overly fearful, the need for an alpha is greater than ever; however, becoming an alpha is easier said than done. Transforming your life can be difficult but if you can do it properly, it could lead to a much happier life.
For those looking for guidance on how to start building a better life, check out our tips below.
Tips for Becoming an Alpha Male
For those looking to improve their life, confidence is key. Often mistakenly associated with arrogance, confidence is a quiet inner strength derived from knowing your own worth. Men and women tend to have a higher respect for those that have confidence in their own capabilities. The higher respect ultimately leads to a desired association where they will also improve by learning from you.
There’s often a misconception that alphas have to lie and scam to reach their goals. The truth is, alphas are too confident in their skills to have to be dishonest about who they are. Alphas obtain everything they have through brutal honesty, something that sets them apart from the rest. Always be honest about who you are and what you believe; let your actions define you. That being said, do not be mean or cruel. Try to determine if what you are saying will have a negative impact on their life vs a positive one.
When alphas enter a room, they have no doubt that people will listen and respect what they say. Before others can believe in you, you must first believe in yourself.
It’s hard to put your trust in someone who doesn’t know how to smile. Part of being an alpha means having the ability to laugh, and equally important, the ability to laugh at yourself. Avoid looking sarcastic or spiteful as it tends to send the message of insecurity and work to find a type of humor that fits you.
Fill the room.
Alphas don’t have to be afraid of filling a room with their presence. Always be relaxed and comfortable, regardless of the situation. When you know you can handle anything that comes your way, you’ll exude the confidence that draws people; don’t be afraid to broadcast it but also dont overcompensate.
To become a true leader, you must first know how to listen. Alphas who are able to listen attentively will attract the respect they deserve. Listening creates a level of trust with those around you, a fundamental characteristic of the alpha male.
Being familiar with the art of romance is indispensable for an alpha. The ability to win over a potential mate won’t necessarily lie in your confidence or attractiveness. Building a relationship is different from being able to build a friendship or be a good bro; the capability to flirt with confidence and refinement is a skill an alpha must possess. Practice makes perfect when learning to develop your charm. Work to make your mates, and potential mates, feel irreplaceable.
Take charge of situations, but do so with confidence and respect. Start by being a leader in your workplace or in your home life. Practice being the type of man that others will respect and want to listen to; when surrounded by indecision, don’t be afraid to act with conviction.
Keep your mind and body in shape by constantly learning and expanding your world. A primary characteristic of an alpha is the ability to take care of those around him. By expanding your knowledge, you will easily be able to help those who need it, as well as become a powerful go-to man. Try to learn a bit about everything; you never know what will be important.
Whether they admit it or not, people take note of the way you carry yourself. Being conscious of your body language allows those around you to get a sense of who you are without needing to say a word. Every move you make sends a message, and it’s up to you to decide what message you want to send. Alphas tend to use body language that broadcasts their confidence, which can include holding your hands behind your back as you speak and maintaining eye contact. Keeping your hands behind your back tends to be an act of exposure, resulting in a show of power and courage, while proper eye contact can be a powerful action all on its own.
It’s advised that alphas take the time to join a gym and begin caring for their bodies. Staying in shape sends the signal that you respect your body, something that others will instantly pick up on. Try to eat healthily and develop an exercise plan that works for you.
Clothes tend to be one of the first things a person will notice about you. It’s important for alphas to learn how to dress properly, finding clothing that suits their personality and enhances their features. Always dress appropriately for the situation and broadcast the message you want to send.
The most important thing to remember is to always remain genuine. While the tips listed above are a fantastic outline, never shy away from forging your own path ahead. What works for one person won’t work for everyone, and it’s important that you find a path defined by you as the leader, the alpha.